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Once you have made good use of adult dating sites and come to the decision that either you, or both you and your partner, are ready to meet up and act out your fantasies, there are a few things that you should keep in mind.
Adult Dating Etiquette
The strongest point that I can express to you is RESPECT. You need to all respect each other's boundaries and when someone is not comfortable with a situation, when they say stop YOU STOP!
Discretion is another must in the swinging and adult scene. If you have met up with someone, please keep their personal information private. Would you like it if other members were going off discussing your private sex life to strangers? You would not so be discrete and trustworthy.
With regards to how fast you take your adult dating, this is entirely up to you. But before you have an encounter with someone it is best that you take it slowly. Meet in a public place for a drink and see how you get on. Please refer to our Adult Dating Safety page for some advice. There should be no pressure in this environment. If you both/all feel like you would like to take your party to a more private area then great but if you don't that's fine too. It is up to all parties concerned in the adult dating scene how fast you wish to progress things.
Swinging Etiquette
If you are completely sure you want to join a swingers party then there are a few rules that need to be followed to uphold the respectfulness of the experience.
* Always reply to an invitation, whether you are going or not.
* Arrive to a swinging party clean and well groomed! Be sure that you are well presented and clean, it is only what you would expect from others.
* Take your own safe sex supplies or extras.
* If you are going to a couples swinging party, arrive with your partner!
* It is considered inappropriate to enter a full swinging room and watch, there will be certain rules to such things depending on each party. If you are not sure ASK the host.
* It is not acceptable to turn up to a Swinging party intoxicated to any level.
* If you do not feel comfortable with a proposition the answer is simply 'No, Thank you' and no explanation is needed. This works both ways no explanations or coercions are acceptable at this moment.
* LET YOURSELF GO AND ENJOY!
Munching
What is Munching? Well it is a public and neutral place where adult daters can gather and get to know one another. It is also a place for new members to the adult dating scene to meet swingers and to ask questions. This location will be somewhere like a pub or a function room, it will be a private function nevertheless to keep privacy and discretion.
To get involved in a munch these are privately organised and you need to show an active interest in the adult dating scene with other members. Meetings will be posted on forums or invitations sent out it will become apparent depending on the members how it is arranged. If you have been invited the location will only be given a couple of days before and it MUST be kept private. This keeps any nosey people out and genuine swingers identities private. Munches are not only open to swingers but are also open to singles, couples, gay or bi people.
The more involved you get into the adult dating scene the more you will get to know people and events. Due to curiosity of people with regards to swinging and the sex scene there are always time wasters who just want to be nosey. This is the reason for the 'secrecy' of events and clubs. Once other adult dating members can see that you are genuine then you will be much more welcome into munching, swinging parties and so on.
I hope that these words of wisdom give you a helping hand to get into the sexy world of adult dating and swinging so that you can begin to live your wildest dreams!
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